This past Sunday, we began a series of message on Philemon by considering what happened to Philemon and Onesimus to prompt the letter: they were both converted to Christ! My goal in the message was the bring clarity to what happens in our conversion to Christ and plead with people to be converted to Christ. The thrust of the message was less chronological and more theological. Or, in other words, we didn’t focus on how conversion is experienced over the course of time. We approached conversion from a 30,000-foot view instead of a street-level view.
But the Bible does give clarity on the street-level experience of conversion over time. How do most people experience conversion over time? And how do we know if that is indeed true conversion? Stephen Smallman, an assistant pastor for New Life Presbyterian Church has written an excellent short booklet on this very topic.
Smallman lets human experience collide with God’s sovereignty. It is clear in his writing that God is the initiater, the worker, the achiever in the process of conversion to Christ, but it is also clear that we are involved. In short, Smallman outlines the process of conversion this way:
- We are called by the Holy Spirit (John 3:5-8; 2 Thessalonians 2:13-14; 1 Peter 1:1-2). God, through His Spirit, begins to woo us. This might include meeting friends who are Christians or actually being willing to listen to friends who are Christians. It might include a growing interest in the person and work of Christ – something you had never considered relevant, even if you had been in the church for years. However it might happen, when God calls and woos those he has chosen to save, that call is effective (Romans 1:6-7; Romans 8:30; 1 Corinthians 1:23-24, 26; 1 Corinthians 6:11; Galatians 1:6, 15-16; Ephesians 2:4-6), which leads to the next step.
- We are regenerated (Ephesians 2:1-6). Regeneration is unseen and can easily go unnoticed if we do not pause to consider the Scriptures. In a person’s experience it is hard to nail down when it happened. But it happened. It certainly happened. It was God’s working to change the person’s heart from death to life, from darkness to light, from blindness to sight, from being interested in Christ (due to the Spirit’s call) to actually seeing Christ for all He is.
- Faith in Christ and repentance of sin (Ephesians 2:8-10; Acts 2:38-39). These two are complementary, as Smallman points out. Faith is a gift from God, independent of works. But the faith God gives produces the work of repentance. Repentance is turning from sin to Christ. For many people’s experience, this can be a very powerful moment. For my friend Andy it was triggered through the loving embrace of a friend; for me it happened on the top bunk in a campground cabin back in Texas. The realization that I am a sinner who cannot save myself (in fact, I now hate those sins which I once loved!), is a life-changing experience. Nothing is quite the same after this. For most people, it is this moment where they would say they were “converted to Christ.” And, indeed, they were!
- Loved by God the Father (Romans 8:15-17; John 1:10-14). Now, based upon the work of God through the Spirit and the Son (i.e,. calling and conversion), we live life as adopted sons of God. He is our loving, faithful, delightful, strong, tender Father. And in being adopted by God the Father through the calling of the Spirit and the converting of the Son, we are also welcomed into the family of God.
All of this is signified and expressed in baptism. In conversion we come into the waters (think: calling), we are immersed and brought back out (think: conversion), and we are forever welcomed into the family of God, His church (think: loved by the Father).
I would strongly suggest Stephen Smallman’s booklet to any Christian. And even more so, any Christian should pick up a couple copies to share with their friends who are becoming interested in Christ or wondering if they have been converted to Christ. May God inspire gratitude and awe and worship in light of the wonderful work of conversion He has done for us!




